“i’m scared we are drifting apart”

9/17/23

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What should I do if I feel like my friendships are falling apart? I don’t feel like my friends and I have as much in common anymore and I am scared we’re drifting apart

Our advice:

Thank you for reaching out and trusting us to give you advice. 
Firstly, I love your name. Secondly, it's perfectly okay to have friendships become distant naturally. It happens. People change over time and not all friendships will always stay close. I have so many friendships that became distant but we're still best friends. let them know how you're feeling. They may be feeling the same and you guys can work together and try to fix it. But honestly, from experience, it's okay to be distant. Just update each other monthly on your lives. Have a little meet-up and catch up and that way you guys stay close. Even a little at-home movie night can do a lot.