your mindset changes your reality

How many times have you noticed the way you think affects your life? From the things you do to the way you think of yourself?

I used to know a girl who always brought herself down, and told herself she couldn’t do things and so in that case she proved to herself she was right. Eventually, she started losing her friends because they tried to look out for her. This girl had not noticed the negative things that had been affecting her life and she chose to ignore them. 

I bet you might have not known that thinking negatively leads you to negative responses and I don't think you really want that, do you? To notice that fault you have to notice how you think about yourself. An example of changing how you view yourself is to look at yourself in the mirror, don’t just tell yourself you're beautiful, tell yourself all the things you love about You. It doesn’t have to be physical things. I used to tell myself that I was great at being kind to others, even the people who didn’t deserve it. There’s absolutely no way you have nothing you love about yourself, I bet if I met you I can point out all the beautiful things about you. ❤️❤️

You can also fake it till you make it. I have so many things I told myself that might have not been true but I did anyway because who in the world cares right? I convinced myself that everyone noticed how good I looked when I walked into a room, even the people who hated me. Of Course, it took me a while to get to that point, I struggled with a lot of negative thoughts about myself and I cared so much about what others thought of me, but realized soon enough that when I did I was living MY life for other people. It was as if I was trying to fit in a space instead of owning a space that I earned.

 As soon as you stop caring about what people think life gets so much easier. If you have ‘mean girls’ in your environment, they will notice how much more you have taken your time to notice yourself and you only cared about what you thought, that they might stop being rude or itch their brains because they will be confused about why you don’t hate yourself they way they want you to.

You are designed to make an impact and inspire girls around you. Everyone is imperfect, be better than you were yesterday. It's you against you. Choose to be positive and have a great day or be stuck in a negative loop where there is no room for growth. You take your pick, and make sure it’s worth it. 

Always remember that you are loved and 

Have the best day ever - Alexa 🫶