treat yourself the way u want others to treat you

Some women, especially on the Internet these days, always talk about how they want their partner to treat them. We women know what we deserve and how we should be treated. But do you seek that validation within yourself? Do you take care of yourself? Do you do things for yourself that will make you secure? 

Here are some simple things to do during your the day to care for yourself: 

• Eat fulfilling meals 3 times a day, healthy meals. Have some really yummy fruit, everyone loves fruit. 

• Do your skin care, talk to your dermatologist to know what’s healthy for you. 

• Buy yourself your favorite flowers and put them in a special vase 

• Read, not just for imagination. Read about things to improve your knowledge on a subject. Learn about all the things you love. A smart girl doesn’t need anything from anyone but herself <3

• Watch your comfort movies, it doesn't matter if no one else likes it. 

• Clean your room. A clean space brings clean energy. 

• Listen to the songs that make you happy. It doesn’t matter if your friends don’t like it. 

Although these might seem really simple and obvious, it can be very hard to feel happy if you don’t do the simple things and it could lead to low self esteem. I am no health professional and I won’t get into that of course so, do your best every day and you’re on the right track.

One thing I realized through high school is that no one can really help you love yourself but well… you. Friendships, relationships and family can be a big part of your happiness but in order to love yourself, you have to do the work.

Take the advice or not, i hope you are doing well, love yourself and put yourself first. You can’t help someone who is drowning if you are as helpless. Don't be closed off to others tho, be kind and treat others with love and forgive those who did you wrong. be an inspiration to others and always show your gorgeous smile! 

With love, Alexa 💗💗