“our last hoco split up”

9/28/23

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I have a friend group of 5. s A and B have an issue with each other and don't hangout much outside of group things. We have homecoming coming up. The getting ready and photos is going to be at A's house. B and C are best friends and a package deal and i would hate for them to be left out senior year. A doesn't mind if C comes but we cant invite C without B. I also cant invite s B and C to A's house because that's not my place. I'm sorry if this is confusing but I don't know what the solution would be. I don't want B and C to get ready alone. B is a bit nerve-hitting at times but not enough to exclude her. I just hate the idea of our last homecoming being split up.

Our advice:

Thanks for reaching out! It totally makes sense why you wouldn't want to be split up for your last hoco, so if you haven't told girl A that yet, bring that point up to her. You could always suggest having everyone get ready and take pictures at your house to try to make everyone more comfortable. But if you're set on taking pictures at Girl A' s house (I'm not sure how far apart y'all live though) you could maybe suggest having everyone get ready at your house and then take pictures at Girl A' s house. I feel like you and Girl B could also have a conversation with Girl A about how it's important to you all that you spend the last hoco together and not split up, and just ask her for one night to try to put their differences aside so their issues don't rob anyone of such an important high school memory. Hope this helps!